Joy of Being.

In life, we usually have learned that we need something to experience in order to allow yourself to be happy. Sometimes it can even feel as we are heartless, when we are okay just by being, and we don’t need anything from someone else. 

Usually we grew up and saw the happiness of our parents when we achieved something and learned that it must be love when someone is proud of our achievements or reaching our goals or even by being their child and we internalized that same pattern. 

The thing is, when you are just being, you are happy just by being. You don’t need to do or be anything, accomplish anything or expect someone else to accomplishing anything. At first, the mind is getting restless about it because because it thinks that it’s not possible and you lose all the love, joy and recognition for who you are in your life. 

But actually the opposite is true. Just by being, you are a field of love and joy, which does not need any recognition, because it is the recognition itself. It can be very weird because you don’t recognize unconditional love at first, because you never knew it was possible. You are not doing anything wrong by feeling those feelings. You do the opposite; you free yourself right in that moment. 

Because the beautiful thing about this is, the unconditional love that we are, will always prove itself. It guides us because it knows itself. It doesn’t need any effort from you or accomplishment because it is who you are. Not deep down, not a part of you, not after growth, not by becoming, not beyond your mind or body, not separated from anything outside of you. 

No, All of You. The human you. And you can never not be, so you already are that beautiful field of love and joy. Even when your mind does not recognize it. In the moment, you are the most joyful and loving experience itself just as you are.

So just be you. It is save, you will catch yourself. It’s all there and it is all for you. And as a human being, you will get to experience it. 

Because it is who You are.